taking flight

>> Monday, September 7, 2009

I think I've finally found my footing. It had to have been a solid month or more that I wallowed in the mire.

The exhaustion of motherhood kept me honest when people asked


"How are you?"

and I responded

"Pretty shitty"

because
I
was
too tired
to lie.

My honesty was met with empathy, especially among the mothers.

And that empathy was a gift to unwrap in the middle of the mire.

* * *

Tonight, I am short on words. So I will borrow from the poet Patrick Overton.

When you walk to the edge of all the light you have
and take that first step into the darkness of the unknown,
you must believe that one of two things will happen:
There will be something solid for you to stand upon,
or, you will be taught how to fly.





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6 comments:

dawn September 8, 2009 12:21 AM  

I love that quote--and had forgotten about it. Thanks for the reminder.

We moms need to stick together...mine are a bit older, and I still rely on mom friends to let me know I am not alone and will survive. :)

Great gift to unwrap!

jenn September 8, 2009 8:39 AM  

Love the quote! I have quite a few days where I feel that way, but I could be working and missing them, so I sigh and think in just 10 short years, everything around here will be quite different! hears to great days!!

Dawn September 8, 2009 11:28 AM  

kinda feeling stuck in the mire myself... but i am starting to feel like i wanna climb out. love the pictures!

Richella September 8, 2009 1:02 PM  

Wow. Thank you for sharing that quotation. It's easy to forget that we'll be provided with what we need--this is a really good reminder.

emily September 10, 2009 7:49 PM  

I really hope I never forget that mama exhaustion, even when those babies are grown. It keeps us connected for sure! Thanks for the honesty. Love it.

Boy Crazy September 10, 2009 7:59 PM  

Great thought, Emily. It has always meant something to me when a mother with older or even grown kids lets me know that she knows how hard it is, how tiring, how much work...and how soon it all passes. And when life thins out and we're no longer in the thick of it, we'll have to be sure to give that support to all the mamas of little ones we come across. ;)

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